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CHILD INCLUSIVE MEDIATION

At Pax Mediation, we understand that separation and family disputes can have a profound impact on children. Our child-inclusive mediation services provide children with a safe and neutral environment to share their thoughts and feelings, ensuring their voices are heard and considered during decision-making processes.

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Led by our experienced FMCA-accredited family mediators, child-inclusive mediation ensures that children’s needs remain at the heart of any agreements, helping families create practical and child-focused solutions.

WHAT IS CHILD-INCLUSIVE MEDIATION?

Child-Inclusive mediation is a specialised form of family mediation that gives children an opportunity to share their perspectives in a safe, supportive setting. This approach is completely voluntary and designed to empower children without burdening them with decision-making responsibilities.

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Through confidential discussions, mediators ensure that children’s views are considered by parents when creating parenting plans or resolving disputes.

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Learn more about how child-inclusive mediation works here.

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HOW DOES CHILD-INCLUSIVE MEDIATION WORK?

Step 1: Initial MIAMs with Parents

The process begins with Mediation Information and Assessment Meetings (MIAMs) for each parent. During these sessions, the mediator discusses the benefits of child-inclusive mediation and assesses its suitability for the family.

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Step 2: Consent and Preparation

The mediator seeks the child’s consent and explains the process in an age-appropriate way. Participation is entirely voluntary, and children can choose to opt out at any time.

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Step 3: Meeting with the Child

The mediator meets with the child in a neutral, child-friendly setting to explore their feelings, concerns, and preferences.

  • The conversation is confidential, and only the information the child agrees to share will be relayed to the parents.

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Step 4: Feedback to Parents

The mediator shares the child’s input with the parents during a follow-up mediation session, helping them make informed, child-centred decisions.

THE BENEFITS OF CHILD-INCLUSIVE MEDIATION

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  1. Empowers Children. Children feel valued and heard, knowing their perspectives matter in family decisions.

  2. Improves Parenting Plans. Hearing children’s views helps parents create practical, child-centred agreements that reflect their needs and preferences.

  3. Reduces Conflict. By focusing on the child’s well-being, parents are encouraged to collaborate rather than argue.

  4. Supports Emotional Well-Being. Children gain a safe space to express their feelings, helping them process family changes in a healthy way.

  5. Fosters Cooperation. Parents are more likely to work together constructively when they understand their child’s perspective.

IS CHILD-INCLUSIVE MEDIATION RIGHT FOR YOUR FAMILY?

Child-inclusive mediation is most effective when:

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  • Both parents agree to involve their child in the process.

  • The child feels comfortable participating.

  • The family dynamic would benefit from a focus on the child’s needs and priorities.

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It may not be suitable in cases where:

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  • There are safeguarding concerns.

  • The child feels pressured or uncomfortable about participating.

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Contact us to discuss whether child-inclusive mediation is right for your family.

LEGAL AID FOR CHILD-INCLUSIVE MEDIATION

We are proud to offer Legal Aid-funded mediation for eligible clients, including child-inclusive sessions. Legal Aid covers:

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  • Initial MIAMs.

  • Mediation sessions for parents and children.

  • Assistance with formalising agreements.

  • Contributions to the other parties costs even if they're not eligible.

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Check your eligibility for Legal Aid here.

WHY CHOOSE PAX MEDIATION FOR CHILD-INCLUSIVE MEDIATION?

1. Experienced Mediators. Our team of FMCA-accredited family mediators are specially trained in child-inclusive mediation, ensuring children are supported throughout the process.

2. Child-Focused Approach. We prioritise the well-being of children, helping families make decisions that are in their best interests.

3. Flexible Options. We offer both in-person and online mediation sessions to accommodate your family's needs and preferences.

4. Comprehensive Support. From MIAMs to Legal Aid applications, we provide full guidance throughout the mediation process.

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Learn more about online mediation here.

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HOW TO GET STARTED WITH CHILD-INCLUSIVE MEDIATION

1. Contact Us
Call, email, or fill out our online referral form to book your MIAM.

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2. Attend Your MIAM​

During the MIAM, our mediator will assess your situation and explain how child-inclusive mediation works.

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3. Begin Mediation

Start child-inclusive sessions tailored to your family’s needs.

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📞 Call us: 0800 058 4303
📧 Email us: admin@paxmediation.co.uk

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"Relaxed environment, very open communication. Easy to speak to the mediator. Would recommend their services."

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"Oliver was amazing. Talked me through the whole process and answered all my questions. Very patient when my daughter needed me and understanding."

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“The mediator made our son feel so comfortable. His input gave us the direction we needed to co-parent more effectively.”

FAQS ABOUT CHILD-INCLUSIVE MEDIATION

1. Is child-inclusive mediation suitable for all ages?
This depends on the child’s maturity and comfort level. Mediators assess suitability on a case-by-case basis.

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2. Will my child be forced to participate?
No, participation is entirely voluntary, and children can opt out at any time.

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3. Can I access Legal Aid for child-inclusive mediation?
Yes, Legal Aid is available for eligible families, covering the costs of child-inclusive sessions.

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Learn more about Legal Aid here.

Take the First Step Toward Child-Centred Resolutions

At Pax Mediation, we’re dedicated to helping families create solutions that truly reflect the needs and wishes of their children. Our child-inclusive mediation services provide a safe and supportive way for children to express their voices, empowering parents to make informed, child-focused decisions.

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Contact Us Today

Pax Mediation Ltd

Appointments available online and offices in Newcastle Quayside, Ashington, Sunderland, Gateshead, Berwick, North Shields and Durham

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